This story was written by Caiti Bawroski. She answered our theme question: How have you benefited from your Best Buddies friendship?
I have benefited from my friendship with my Best Buddy, Lorren, in more ways than I can say! Lorren’s positive attitude, loyalty, and sensitivity have made her one of the best friends that I have ever had.
Lorren always has words of encouragement when I am feeling down. Ever since I became College Buddy Director, she has constantly told me about what a good job she thinks that I am doing.
Whenever I talk to her about an event I am trying to put together, she always says, “That’s why you are president. You have the best ideas!” Sometimes I doubt my abilities to be a good leader to my chapter, but Lorren is always there to support me and to help me see my abilities!
Lorren has also proven to be a very loyal friend. While I feel that some people tend to make empty promises that they don’t always keep, I know that I can always count on my Best Buddy. If she tells me that she is going to call me at a certain time, she never fails to do so. She also attends almost every Best Buddies event that our chapter holds. Lorren proves time and time again to be someone who I can count on! I never have to question if she is a true friend to me because she never lets me down!
Last but not least, Lorren is always sensitive to my feelings. Whenever I see her, the first thing she does is ask me how I am doing. She wants to make sure that I am well, and if I am not doing well, she wants to know why and talk about it. If I am upset, Lorren becomes upset too. On the rare occasion that Lorren cannot attend a Best Buddies event, she immediately apologizes and makes sure that my feelings are not hurt. It is great to have a friend who cares so much about my feelings!
All in all, you can see that I have benefited in many ways from my Best Buddies friendship! Lorren has many qualities that make her a great friend to have, and I cannot imagine my life without her. Who would not benefit from having her as a friend? I am very lucky!
This story as written by Best Buddies Canada participant Stephanie Hamelin, from Quebec, Canada. She answered our theme question: How has Best Buddies helped you become a leader?
First thing I thought while reading the theme of this week was, “Oh My God ! Leader is a strong word. Am I a leader ?”
A leader for me is someone who is doing outstanding things that will influence people towards the achievement of a goal. Of course, on a day-to-day basis, I’m doing my best to help the cause by trying to improve my buddy’s quality of life, raising money, and opening minds around me. But these are all normal things you do when you care for a friend, so I don’t consider myself as a leader. That’s why, instead of talking about myself, I’ve decided to talk about my leaders in Best Buddies.
Since I’ve been involved with people that have disabilities, you can’t imagine how much I am amazed by what I see every day when sharing their lives. Actually, I truly think they are the leaders we are looking for.
I know a young man, with such an overwhelming imagination, that he is creating his own games, and he’s sharing them, bringing sunshine in the life of his other friends. Every morning, I can’t wait to see the new ideas that had come out of his head to entertain us and make us laugh. And I’m telling you, I’ve never seen someone with such a devotion to his task, and that definitely makes my day.
I’ve seen a group of guys with autism, playing team sports at Special Olympics, and winning with such a wonderful team spirit. I was totally astonished by everybody who has ever attended a team meeting at work and knows how difficult it is to bring a group of people to agree to a common idea and to develop team spirit. But these group of guys with disabilities were able to achieve that, and moreover, they did it with a smile on their face. Wow! They are the example we have to follow.
I’ve met a wonderful woman too, that even if she may need help and support for herself, she is spending part of her week being a volunteer helping others in her community. Moreover, she has been recently nominated volunteer of the year. Being able to overcome your own difficulties in order to help others, isn’t that what we expect from our leaders?
I sincerely believe that my friends are the best leaders our society can have. They give all they have to make our world a better place to live. I would like to thank my leaders for being who they are, and to thank Best Buddies for helping my friends becoming our leaders.
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